5 Important things to bring to a Memory Care Community

Often, families ask me what I recommend they bring in when moving their loved ones into my community. They find it a bit difficult to choose from everything their loved one has collected throughout the years. I tell them while downsizing is important, it really should not be their focus. There will be plenty of time for them to work on that. Instead, I recommend bringing items that your loved one will need, which will make their transition more comfortable. 

Clothing 

First, I recommend items that are often used by the individual. Second, look for pieces of clothing that can withstand frequent washing. Third, clothing that is easily put on and removed, since your loved one may at some point have difficulty dressing independently. These clothes should not cause them frustration but should instead give them some sense of control and make getting dressed something to look forward to rather than something they dread. Fourth, when packing, also make sure to include accessories. I really enjoy seeing a resident's face light up when someone compliments them on a scarf, vest, hat, or piece of jewelry they choose to show off their personal style. Lastly, don't forget appropriate, comfortable shoes and sleepwear, especially if they tend to wander in the evenings. 

Personal care products 

Even though my community and others offer toiletries as part of our services, I still recommend that families look at how important personal care products are to their loved ones. Do they have a favorite lotion, cream, soap, or shampoo? Have they used the same product for years? If so, then they should bring it along. When a family provides these favorite items, they help their loved one maintain their routine and feel less disrupted by the transition into a community.

Bedding and linens 

When moving into a community, bringing in personal bedding and linens can create a feeling of home in a new and sometimes overwhelming environment. Having a familiar, comfortable blanket over their bed can help a resident identify their bed, especially if they are in a shared room. Familiar bedding can also help keep residents in their bed longer as they don't feel like they are in a stranger's bed and have the urge to get up. 

Electrical items 

If they form a part of your loved one's routine, bring them. This could mean radio, television, phone, or even an iPad or computer. Just because they have moved into a community does not mean they can't continue to enjoy and use these items. Many communities, such as Calson's communities, have caring and helpful staff willing to assist if needed to set up or assist with the use of these items.

 Decorative items 

Definitely bring pictures, art, stuffed animals, and or furniture pieces that tell a story, trigger memories, and help your loved one feel that this is their space. These items can help them to connect and feel a sense of ownership in their new home.

I believe that by focusing on these five important things, you can help your loved one have an easier, shorter transition period, helping them thrive while receiving much-needed care in a safe and comfortable environment. This will also give you peace of mind that you are doing what is best for them.

Contact me with any questions at grace@crescentoaksmc.com or visit our website at: www.calsonmanagement.com